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Ten Steps On "How to Keep A Loving Relationship" 

1.  Patience
Learn to relax and keep positive, letting  go of the negative and thinking about the positive. 

2.  Communicate Without fear and openness, let your partner know what you expect and how you would like to be treated.  

3.  Laughter
Make sure you have a smile on your face, let your partner know that they make you happy and you want to make them happy as well.

4.  Learning to back off
Don't allow  the negative habits  to annoy you, think about the positive traits your partner has to offer and let the little annoying things go.

5.  Romance
 Think of love constantly, make every chance you get to make it a loving one. Re-inforce the love you have and keep in mind that you both are special.

6.  Sharing
Make time for love, respect, trust and appreciate one another. Quality time and time for lovemaking will deepen the intimate passion you have for one another.

7.  Being confident Know that you are special and are sharing it with someone just as unique, trust that you are creating a bond that noone can break and you are making it stronger.

8.  Think before speaking
Don't allow hurtful words to be spoken, keep in mind that your goal is to create a loving and healthy environment. When hurtful words come out it might give you a sense of satisfaction to get back at your partner but, ultimately you will only find yourself filled with resentment.

9.  Control anger Learn not too intimidate your partner try not to manipulate them in any  way. Anger builds up and creates a sense of inferiority, allowing anger to build will only build bigger walls.

10. Don't pass judgement
Never criticize or talk bad about your loved one.  Bite your tongue. Never make them feel as though they are
not worth being loved. Let them know that you are on their side no matter what.  

Everyone needs love,  if you are tired of negative behavior and negative effects, then it is time for you to try a different approach. Nothing changes unless you take action.

JLC
www.a-gift-of-love.com

 

 

 

                                       
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How Many Relationships Do You Juggle Everyday?
Editor  theplus50crowd  

Spouse, parents, children, grandchildren, friends and co-workers?  When you add up the number of people who influence your life, you begin to realizes just how much power these relationships have over you emotionally, physically and financially.  How do we decipher which relationships enhance our lives and which relationships  undermine our well being?  Relationships are a tricky business and there are no easy solutions.  The one relationship we always overlook, is the relationship we have with ourself.  As we attempt to keep everyone around us happy, we seldom remember to make ourself happy as well.  The truth is, if we are unhappy in our life, we can't make anyone else happy either.  So as you juggle friends, family and work... remind yourself that your happiness does count.  Relationships that strip you of that happiness need to be rethought.  We can't rid ourselves of every toxic relationship, but we can certainly limit the time we spend in that person's presence.  No one has the right to make us miserable.  Learning to say no is the first step in improving the quality of our life. 

                        
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De-stressing From Life.  How Do You Release The Negativity And Embrace The Possitivity In Your Life?

In order to de-stress and experience true happiness we need to connect more deeply with others. Our friends remind us of the song in our hearts when we have forgotten the words. Our friends give us objective advice when we are too close to the big picture. Our friends listen to our troubles without judgment and with great compassion.

by Debbie Mandrel